We decided to move forward with the surrogate candidate we spoke with.
I’m still not feeling 100% good about her and this decision. Our agency continues to be a bunch of jerks and basically said that they wouldn’t be able to find us any match if we can’t clearly tell them what’s wrong with her (obviously they don’t care about us or our gut instincts). So we are moving forward. And I’m counting the days that we can be done with this f***ing agency. I really wish I could prevent others from working with this agency. It’s awful enough to have to go through this journey after 6 losses and the loss of my fertility- I don’t need people I am paying to HELP me to be treating me like shit.
I do think our carrier is nice and hopefully together we can have as good of a journey as possible. On to contracts and hopefully a quick transfer. (not that anything moves quickly in surrogacy!)